For The Teen Mothers........?

ive been using yahoo answers for many years now and i have read quite a few questions on here having to do with young teens having babies. every single question i read there is always at least one person speaking so rudely to them. as a teen mother myself i feel so bad for these young girls. they are scared and feel alone and in their time of need someone comes along and puts them down feeling lower than ever. i had my daughter at 16 years old. i know what all the stares and whispers feel like. im not at all promoting teen pregnancy. but when these scared young girls come to people on here for help we should be there to help them out, let them know that life is not over. but instead all too often i see people calling them "s" and telling them their life is over. i want to make it clear, as a teen mother life is NOT over. you can finish school and go on to get a good job and make a good future for your kids just as any older mother would. if you don't want to be treated like the statistic than don't be the statistic. don't give up and live off the government. you will always receive so much more respect if you show that you are willing to work for a better life. and NEVER call the child a mistake! it may be an accident but no child is a mistake! i am not at all trying to disrespect anyone in any kind of way. i just think its about time that someone let the young mothers know that there are people out here who care about you. there are people who will not judge you. i just wish everyone would remember, these young women are still human! and like any human we all make mistakes. support each other through the hard times. i am grown now, but i will still always be a teen mother. to all young mothers, there are supportive people out there. im here for anyone who needs a friend.